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Thursday, March 03, 2011

Broken heart...

A broken heart (or heartbreak) is a common metaphor used to describe the intense emotional pain or suffering one feels after losing a loved one, through death, divorce, breakup, moving, being rejected, or other means.

Heartbreak is usually associated with a losing spouse, through losing a parent, child, pet, or close friend can also "break one's heart". The phrase refers to the physical pain one may feel in the chest is usually a metaphor, there is a condition - appropriately known as "broken heart syndrome" - where a traumatizing incident triggers the brain to distribute chemicals that weaken heart issue.

PHILOSOPHICAL VIEWS.
For many people having a broken heart is something that may not be recognized at first, as it takes time for an emotional or physical loss to be fully acknowledged. As Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson states:

Human beings are not always aware of what they are feeling. Like animals, they may not be able to put their feelings into words. This does not mean they have no feelings. Sigmund Freud once speculated that a man could be in love with a woman for six years and not know it until many years later. Such a man, with all the goodwill in the world, could not have verbalized what he did not. He had the feelings, but he did not know about them. It may sound paradox - paradoxical because when we think of a feeling. As Freud put it in his 1915 article The Unconscious: "It is surely of the essence of an emotion that we should be aware of it. Yet it is beyond question that we can 'have' feelings that we do not know about".

Big kiss from Delhi

Tuesday, March 01, 2011

Ugly weather!

When the sun arrives, we think that it will be a sunny day for the whole day but suddenly it rain. Or sometime the sun doesn't say hello at all and it stays cloudy for the rest of the day. Kind of annoying. Just this morning, I thought of keeping my winter cloths in the box but now I think that I have to keep it for a while, just in case. But by the end of this week, they will be in the box any how as I don't need them for quite sometime. I still don't know how it will be in KL at the moment and i haven't checked yet. Hopefully it won't rain when we suppose to be on the beach. I feel so excited and really looking forward to this trip; for the first time Teano and me will be away from Laurent for a long time and also to spend more time with Teano on the beach as well as being independence after almost a year and the half.

Big kiss from New Delhi.